I
know from past experience that if you put up with things for so long, when you
find the courage to leave, you don’t ever look back. The light goes out. If
your wife isn’t interested in a reconciliation, the only thing you can take
from this is never to treat anyone you love like that again. And hopefully you
can go on to have a happy life.
I know I am generalizing here, but while women
are pretty good at talking and trying to work out what has gone wrong, men tend
to want to avoid the subject. He may feel embarrassed or emasculated that he
has lost his sex drive, so you have to tread carefully. All you can do is
reassure him that you love him and you love your life together, but that you
don’t want the sexual side of your relationship to be over.
You are attracted
to this other guy because you are feeling ¬unattractive and neglected at home,
but don’t complicate things at this stage with an affair. If your husband
continues to refuse to discuss how you are feeling, then he may have to accept
that you will walk away from the marriage. I have tried again and again to get
him to talk about it and asked him if we can see a doctor but he refuses
point-blank.
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